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For people building families through egg donation, sperm donation, or embryo adoption. Share donor selection experiences, disclosure decisions, and find peers who understand the complex emotions of genetic connection
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Donor Conception Support on OctoSay is a community for people building families through egg donation, sperm donation, or embryo adoption — but unlike closed Facebook groups where secrecy is the default, here AI helps you find peers at your exact stage of openness. You chat with AI to sort out what you need — whether it is donor selection strategies, when and how to tell your child, navigating relationships with donors, or just someone who understands the complex feelings about genetic connection. Then AI continuously finds the right person in the group for you, not random strangers. When you connect, both of you already share the full AI conversation context, so there is no need to explain why you chose donor conception. No spam, no judgment, no posts left unanswered. Just real support, truly understood, finally found.
Group chat, but Octo clarifies your details and actively matches you.
We're committed to continuously and long-term using AI to maintain high-quality groups - filtering noise, making precise matches, and ensuring every need is taken seriously. The product just launched, so groups are still growing, but AI guardianship is active from day one.
We kindly ask you to spread the word and stay in the group. Be patient as we build something truly useful together. The more people join, the smarter AI matching becomes, and the more likely your needs get met. Every member who stays is key to making this group better 💪
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